Hi, I’m Fabio, and I help men in boulder, Co, by using the most advanced therapy methods, to create the lives that they want.
Do you struggle with finding a sense of meaning, direction and purpose in your life?
Does your anger, at times (or all the time), ruin good situations, relationships, opportunities?
Do you find yourself criticizing people around you, as well as being self-critical?
Does your anger, or unexpected rage, sabotage your efforts to move forward in your life?
Do you find yourself despairing about life and thinking “will things ever get better?”
You might be wondering if there is something bigger to life than the personal/relationship struggles, and the rut you may be in.
I help people deal and resolve:
Intense feeling of criticism —> into more self-kindness, less depression, anxiety, despair and anger
Depression —> into a greater optimistic and hopeful approach to life
Explosive and surprising anger —> deeper self acceptance, connection, respect and honoring of your inner values
PTSD and trauma —> into stopping compulsively reliving old traumatic memories and accepting who you are right now
Sex issues —> feel more confident in your body and relaxed and open in intimate situations
I take my work very seriously and my goal is to help you create a life that is more fulfilling than you ever thought possible before. And that’s why I spent over a decade of training in Master of Social Work, Brainspotting, Men’s groups, EFT/Tapping for trauma resolution, conflict mediation, restorative justice practices, and facilitating hundreds of men’s groups provide me with the tools to help you through your current struggle. I’m a licensed social worker and registered psychotherapist and I offer a trauma-informed, attachment-based approach. I specialize in clients struggling with trauma from overwhelming experiences, stress, and relationship and intimacy struggles and help them to achieve a balanced, happy, and fulfilling life.
You may be struggling with:
feeling mad; sudden spikes of rage; unexpressed anger
panic attacks, nervousness
feeling sad, low, unmotivated or unhappy and dissatisfied with life
Developmental and attachment trauma
emotional or psychological wounding in early childhood
War and violence
being the victim or witnessing it
Accident and/or sports injury
Sexual abuse and molestation
erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sexual desire
“Nice Guy” syndrome
Codependency or low self-confidence
feeling like a “lost boy”, fatherless or motherless
You bring who you are, shadows, worries, pain and all. I sit with you and provide an empathic ear and help you process your deepest fears. You are safe here and your diverse inner parts are welcomed.
Here are some testimonials about my work:
“Fabio has the great combination that I look for: he leads with his heart complimented by sharp insight that helps laser in what the issues are for his clients. He uses a relational approach to help guide clients out of their stuck places. If you haven't yet experienced Fabio Fina, do it!"
~R.S., psychotherapist and published writer
“Fabio Fina is my friend and soul brother on the path. He brings the unique gift of seeing and sensing through the veils. He has a humble, graceful, and powerful approach to supporting others. Fabio might be the most skilled man at his trade... He has the ability to plug-in to what is actually going on in your life while holding the biggest view of who you are and then guide you through a process that takes you and your body right to the core of the matter you are wanting changed. If you want to change your life, I highly recommend Fabio and his work."
~J.G., psychotherapist, relationship coach and podcast entrepreneur
my approach and TECHNIQUES:
IFS: Internal Family Systems
EFT-Tapping for trauma
Life Coaching and psychoeducation
depth-psychology (Carl Jung, James Hillman, Robert Johnson)
eco-psychology (Johanna Macy, Bill Plotkin)
indigenous psychologies (Eduardo Duran, Martin Prechtel)